Reasons Exchanges Succeed or Fail

TOP TWELVE REASONS EXCHANGES SUCCEED (In no particular order)

  • Be a member of the family, not a guest
  • You adjust to the host family, not them to you.
  • Depend on host parents for direction, not natural parents
  • Immerse yourself in, learn,  and RESPECT the culture
  • Make every effort to learn and become fluent in the language
  • Attend school on a regular basis, get involved in school activities
  • Be part of your Rotary Club and involved in their activities.
  • Have a wide circle of friends who are from the country you are in, not just other Rotex
  • The family here is completely supportive of your exchange and the Rotary guidelines.
  • Being flexible at all times, and being disappointed
  • Going on your exchange with no preconceived notions as to what it will be like.
  • Limiting communication with natural parents and friends early in the exchange

  TOP TWELVE REASONS EXCHANGES GET IN TROUBLE (In no particular order)

  • Homesickness due to phone calls and emails.
  • Lack of Interest in learning the language.
  • Acquiring a boy/girlfriend right before leaving on exchange.
  • Acquiring a boy/girlfriend while on exchange.
  • Giving higher priority to friends than to host family.
  • The family who hosts because it’s a requirement and treats you as a guest.
  • Poor support from the hosting club or district.
  • Poor cooperation/participation in club/district activities.
  • Not communicating challenges to YEO, only to natural parents or club.
  • Lack of appreciation/understanding/ acceptance of different customs.
  • More interested in other Rotex than in immersing in new culture.
  • Lack of support/opposition to exchange from a family member.

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